Embracing Change: Navigating Life's Unexpected Turns
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Chapter 1: A Morning Without Power
Today began with an unexpected surprise—no electricity.
"Did you turn off the ceiling fan last night?" I inquired. "I thought you did," my wife replied.
"Uhhhh…"
Around 1 AM, a thunderous storm rolled through the Upper Peninsula, shaking our home with ferocious lightning, thunder, torrential rain, and howling winds until about 5 AM.
Branches and leaves littered the roads, and a tree had unfortunately crushed a neighbor's car—totaled!
We noticed a bit of water in the basement.
Yard decorations, chairs, flags, and trash cans were scattered throughout the neighborhood.
But alas, we woke up to a power outage.
What were our plans for the day?
The forecast promised sunshine and temperatures in the 80s!
With the day off, we intended to stroll in the park, hit the gym, attend a DDA committee meeting at noon, swim at the lake, possibly whip up some keto pancakes for dinner, and tackle yard work.
It was shaping up to be an action-packed, sweaty day!
However, without power…no shower, no cooking.
What a bummer!
So much for our itinerary!
Plans: Essential Yet Unpredictable
Plans are indeed valuable. They are vital for success—whether in business, budgeting, family trips, or daily activities.
Yet, what happens when our well-laid plans encounter unforeseen obstacles? It's easy to feel like Lando Calrissian in Star Wars Episode V—everything should be set, but then it’s not.
We often cry out, "IT'S NOT MY FAULT! IT'S NOT FAIR!"
Lando experienced betrayal, and similarly, we too can become frustrated and disheartened.
So, how did my wife and I respond to our disrupted plans?
Instead of pancakes, we decided to fire up the grill and grab hot dogs from the local store.
Instead of swimming, we could still go for a walk at the park. If our food spoiled, we could feed some deer nearby!
Stuck indoors without our computers? No problem—let's grab some books and enjoy the breeze on the porch.
Mowing the lawn? That can wait for another day.
As mentioned yesterday, our perspective shapes our reality. If we view the outage as a significant inconvenience, we are likely to feel negative emotions about it.
However, if we see it as an opportunity to adjust our plans, we might discover something even better.
Consider Elon Musk’s experience in California—when taxes and regulations became overwhelming, he didn’t simply give up.
He chose to relocate and ended up finding a more suitable, cost-effective base in Texas, which also benefitted SpaceX.
Life often throws unexpected challenges our way.
We can either halt our plans or adapt and reconfigure them.
In conclusion, while having plans is crucial for a fulfilling life, the ability to swiftly adapt to disruptions is equally important.
Flexibility and a good sense of humor can significantly enhance our enjoyment of life and our ability to recalibrate as necessary.
Oh, and by the way, the power came back on late in the morning. While part of our plan was thwarted, there’s still hope for the rest of the day!
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These reflections are excerpts from my upcoming book, "YouDaimonia: the Philosophy of Human Flourishing."